“I am fascinated with the fantasy surrounding the behaviors involved with BDSM. I feel that the best sessions evolve from communication about the origin of one’s fantasies and how they currently manifest themselves.
When asked if I am a sadist, I respond by saying that I am a consensual sadist. I would never inflict pain or discomfort on a perfect stranger for my own amusement. Rather, I inflict pain and discomfort on those who I have gotten to know me within the context of consensual BDSM. I take great delight in hurting you once the session is under way…”
– from the personal philosophy of The Vinyl Queen, a San Francisso based Dominatrix.
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Although I enjoy formalities and protocol I’m not a parody of a Domme, but a real person with a passion for Dominant BDSM and fetish. I am strict regarding rituals and formalities as a means to enhance the D/s experience and tone.
BDSM (bondage/discipline, Dominance/submission, sadism/masochism) is an interplay that requires the surrendering of power by the submissive to a capable partner. How we experience BDSM, and the meanings we give to various types of play are as individual as we are.
As a Domme possessing a mercurial nature, my interests are varied, but taking control of you is always the mission. I will guide our journey through the depths of your submissive psyche, and safely return you wanting and waiting for the time we again discover new thrilling places.
The power of the Goddess
I do truly believe in the power of the Goddess. All life originates from the female.
Soft, curvy and powerful, the beauty of the Woman cannot be denied.
Women are psychologically more developed, more sensitive and more powerful than men.
Because of this, throughout history, the male has tried to suppress the Goddess. My Goddess, however, will not be suppressed.
“My Vision” - Dominatrix Dinah - Amsterdam Mistress
I don’t play with every party willing to cough up the Tribute. I feel we must have a certain base level of chemistry. Without those elements, this lifestyle becomes a job. It takes all of the joy out of scenes. I do what I love and I wouldn’t change that for all the money in the world. This is all about finding a mutually gratifying experience with people I enjoy.
I believe that Power Exchange requires that the submissive have power to give. This means that I don’t play with “No Limits” submissives. I want my play partners to have boundaries that I can bend!
I view it as the true calling of a Dominatrix to assist those who come to see her in becoming comfortable with who they are. I want you to feel you are in a safe space. A space in which to feel vulnerable and even unsafe at times. I walk the fine line between fantasy and a dark reality.
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